AA ten-year-old is capable of completing his own homework, although you surely can review it after he's done it to ensure he's doing quality work. Set up a time and place for regular study time. He can use a timer to monitor his own speed and try to complete it in the hour expected by the teacher. After he's completed the work and you or his dad has reviewed it, you can plan to play a special game together. He'll be much more motivated if there is something he can look forward to.

Also, any time you can praise your son casually as being a good worker will reinforce his belief that he has a good work ethic. Seeing himself as a good worker will also help relieve pressure he may feel about equating smart with easy.

If this simple, positive approach doesn't work, you may wish to have your son evaluated by the school or private psychologist to determine if he is having some academic or attention problems. If the work is truly difficult for him, you may need to take some other corrective actions or ask for more help from the school.

Dr. Sylvia